Love-ishness
The Tax subject is a very serious subject. And when I mean serious, it EVEN implies to a point where the 1-hour lecture we're getting(we're supposed to get hehe) isn't just enough for us to be able to SINK-IN all those concepts which honestly are MORE technical than we sometimes think they were. Tama na ang pagkukunwari hehe, aaminin ko na dito ang matagal ko ng saloobin hehe, Accounting, for me, is a BORING subject, especially Tax.. So I could simply say that I'm somehow still continuing to pursue such boring course for SURVIVAL
! Kaya pumasok si Sir Basti(our Tax professor) and I was definitely whispering to myself that this would be "another" BORING lecture as it always is, but SINCE it's still February and just a day before yesterday, Valentines day was celebrated by SOME, our Tax prof only discussed the real thing for 'bout 30 minutes and the remaining 30 is ALL about sharing his own HILARIOUS theories about LOVE in toto hehe. Was I enjoying it?? Who the hell doesn't hehe especially if you find Tax a boring subject too? Well, his personal sharings 'bout Love are MORE worth taking down notes than those itemized deductions against Income hehe.. Are we getting such EXCLUSIVE "special" treatment from HIM because of his very comfortable gesture to our section?? I just wonder because he definitely was some sort of a SNOB with a grimaced face when he first entered the room. Well, his 4 B's(sort of tips) to get a partner for LIFE is collectively a GREAT advice everybody could get especially those who struggle in finding the perfect one. They're pretty COMMON though but one thing is SO important that I definitely would share: Beauty FADES! Well, since we're not yet departing this so-called LOVE month, I'm somewhat inspired because of Sir Basti's showcase of wits on formulating own theories, well I might as well share my own HUMBLE version 'bout Love hehe..
MULTIPLY BY 2: Gawin ko na lang Math equation ang una kong theory hehe. Don't worry "allergic" din ako sa Math kaya hindi NAMAN talaga 'to madugo hehe. Multiply by 2 is a MISCONCEPTION 'bout Love that almost every couple fails to see. Kaya madalas akong makakita sa Fx ng dalawang mag-kasintahan na talagang naglalambingan pa sa UNA tapos bago pa ako bumaba, nag-tampuhan na pala. 'Lam niyo ba kung bakit ganoon kadalas?? Sa tingin ko lang kasi, nag-multiply ang isang partner by 2 hehe.. Tang 'na, ano bang ibig sabihin nito, labo eh no hehe?? I may not be a GOOD writer but I'm not VAGUE so let me now go into it:
You're not getting such TRUE love that we all desire for if you extend yourself to another person(so-called beloved). Surprising hehe? Let's find out. Love isn't an extension of one self but an extension of generous hands. Because doing so, as the the word "extension" implies, you try to DOUBLE yourself at the expense of another. The word "double" here is what I'm saying 'bout "Multiply by 2." What's therefore the tendency of DOUBLING oneself?? One basic tendency is you try to subordinate his/her own freedom to yours. Kasi nga, when I mean "DOUBLING" one self it seems LIKE you're trying to make another version of YOU and entering into a relationship is one perfect way to fulfill that purpose. Gusto mo halimbawa sa Jollibee na lang kayo mag-date kasi at home ka dito simula bata ka pa at kung ayaw niya, pipilitin mo pa rin siya sa GUSTO mo, at kung ayaw talaga niya sa Jollibee mag-date kasi cheap daw, magtatampo ka na, sunod niyan malamang BREAK-UP na. Kita, dahil lang kay Jollibee, BREAK na ang inaakala mong pag-ibig dahil sa malalim mong pagnanasa na gawin mo siyang exactly IKAW(e kung hindi talaga siya at home dun hehe, 'la kang magagawa). And that's no wonder DOUBLING and since this is one misconception of love, that isn't love at all. IF you love a person, why don't you just let that person FREE, even FREE in boundless ways. If you can do that(which I think only a few can master/tolerate) then you're at the right track! Love, again, isn't an extension of oneself. Doing so is like foolishly concluding that as your body moves, so is the Universe. Freedom or Individuality rules(even in a relationship), if in the relationship these two aren't exercised, then why go into Love if that would only choke?? So the helpful trick here is that DON'T LOVE, if you would only try to detain a person inside the box. Love should always be at its essence-liberating. Let's do the Math now hehe: Love isn't doubling oneself but it is just finding the difference. Meaning, if you don't have a right partner yet(tulad ko hehe), we are NOT YET WHOLE as human beings and only then you'll realize that instinctive "NEED" to finally find what's the difference(if you're 75% full for instance, subtract now 75 from a hundred to find the difference). Filling up therefore what's still EMPTY/LACKING to ultimately be WHOLE. Whole ha hehe?? Hindi sobra-sobra sa paraang "multiply by 2." It's but an extension of generous hands(not the self), and this means nothing but you contribute, by any means possible, something good for the well-being of another which no doubt(in turn) contributes to your well-being too...
Okay?? hehe. Saka na ung PART 2(final part) hehe. May quiz pa ako sa Computer haha!! Tungkol naman sa love at first sight at hopefully sa HOPE(2 faces of it) hehe.. Bye this time...
MULTIPLY BY 2: Gawin ko na lang Math equation ang una kong theory hehe. Don't worry "allergic" din ako sa Math kaya hindi NAMAN talaga 'to madugo hehe. Multiply by 2 is a MISCONCEPTION 'bout Love that almost every couple fails to see. Kaya madalas akong makakita sa Fx ng dalawang mag-kasintahan na talagang naglalambingan pa sa UNA tapos bago pa ako bumaba, nag-tampuhan na pala. 'Lam niyo ba kung bakit ganoon kadalas?? Sa tingin ko lang kasi, nag-multiply ang isang partner by 2 hehe.. Tang 'na, ano bang ibig sabihin nito, labo eh no hehe?? I may not be a GOOD writer but I'm not VAGUE so let me now go into it:
You're not getting such TRUE love that we all desire for if you extend yourself to another person(so-called beloved). Surprising hehe? Let's find out. Love isn't an extension of one self but an extension of generous hands. Because doing so, as the the word "extension" implies, you try to DOUBLE yourself at the expense of another. The word "double" here is what I'm saying 'bout "Multiply by 2." What's therefore the tendency of DOUBLING oneself?? One basic tendency is you try to subordinate his/her own freedom to yours. Kasi nga, when I mean "DOUBLING" one self it seems LIKE you're trying to make another version of YOU and entering into a relationship is one perfect way to fulfill that purpose. Gusto mo halimbawa sa Jollibee na lang kayo mag-date kasi at home ka dito simula bata ka pa at kung ayaw niya, pipilitin mo pa rin siya sa GUSTO mo, at kung ayaw talaga niya sa Jollibee mag-date kasi cheap daw, magtatampo ka na, sunod niyan malamang BREAK-UP na. Kita, dahil lang kay Jollibee, BREAK na ang inaakala mong pag-ibig dahil sa malalim mong pagnanasa na gawin mo siyang exactly IKAW(e kung hindi talaga siya at home dun hehe, 'la kang magagawa). And that's no wonder DOUBLING and since this is one misconception of love, that isn't love at all. IF you love a person, why don't you just let that person FREE, even FREE in boundless ways. If you can do that(which I think only a few can master/tolerate) then you're at the right track! Love, again, isn't an extension of oneself. Doing so is like foolishly concluding that as your body moves, so is the Universe. Freedom or Individuality rules(even in a relationship), if in the relationship these two aren't exercised, then why go into Love if that would only choke?? So the helpful trick here is that DON'T LOVE, if you would only try to detain a person inside the box. Love should always be at its essence-liberating. Let's do the Math now hehe: Love isn't doubling oneself but it is just finding the difference. Meaning, if you don't have a right partner yet(tulad ko hehe), we are NOT YET WHOLE as human beings and only then you'll realize that instinctive "NEED" to finally find what's the difference(if you're 75% full for instance, subtract now 75 from a hundred to find the difference). Filling up therefore what's still EMPTY/LACKING to ultimately be WHOLE. Whole ha hehe?? Hindi sobra-sobra sa paraang "multiply by 2." It's but an extension of generous hands(not the self), and this means nothing but you contribute, by any means possible, something good for the well-being of another which no doubt(in turn) contributes to your well-being too...
Okay?? hehe. Saka na ung PART 2(final part) hehe. May quiz pa ako sa Computer haha!! Tungkol naman sa love at first sight at hopefully sa HOPE(2 faces of it) hehe.. Bye this time...
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